hate...?

"The most hated on out of all those who claim they get hated on, in 80 songs, they exaggerated..." - Eminem

Every five years people bring back old styles of clothing, recycle slang, start new trends and put a hold on trends that will be brought up later, so on and so on... Everybody's going to be biased to the decade that they group up in, or was a teenager in and call it the "golden years".  Everyone's entitled to that...the 90's was very important to me, to pop culture, and to the new wave of technology, (in my opinion).  older people loved the 70's, some the 80's... and Whenever "we" grow up we tend to say, "it's not like it use to be", or "these young kids blah blah"... I don't want to be the old head sounding dude...and I embrace a lot of new things that I swore I would never...

1. black men going back to wearing clothes that fit them (tight is better than  8 sizes too big)

2. Ipods and mp3 players ruling the world (when i finally got my hands on one, I fell in love)

**I buy music, you should too**

3. The internet being a trillion times more entertaining then television (finally something has beaten the idiot box (some misuse the net though too, more than two hours at a time is just crazy...

4. Futuristic themes that are showing up everywhere in pop culture from fashion to music

I don't like a lot of what I see, mostly things that I keep to myself for many reasons, but one thing that I CANNOT SEEM TO UNDERSTAND (((CANNOT))) is the whole "HATING THING"

 "He's a hater", "Shout out to all my haters out there", "I'ma let the haters hate", "Hi haters" 

"You can hate if you want, I'm doing my thing" ???????????????????????????????????????

Somebody please tell me what that's all about, that's about as generic as a black dude "that probably raps"

starting off his sentence with "whattup it's ya boy _____________".  It's gotten to a point where 

people are afraid to even say they dislike anything....why can't I just not think you're good at something

or think you don't look nice or that you didn't own up to your huge ego.? Why does everybody have

to be hating on you guy/girl who says that..guess what..???? you're not that important for someone to even be "hating" on...

now.. people are afraid to be called a hater... meanwhile there's wack records/musicians/actors/educators/not-so-smart-people and all this

foolishness out there because people won't say..."you're not good"....not me.... forget that.. call me a hater